Are you under Involved?

Your child probably spends more of his daytime hours with his teacher than with you, his parent, in a typical school week. Have you taken the time to meet the person with so much influence on your child? Many parents do not take the time to meet their child's teacher, but believe me, on the first sign of supposed trouble, they are in the classroom complaining. This is not a good way to get help. Please realize a few things:

• Teachers do not get into teaching for the money! They teach because they care about children. Teachers do want the best for your child. They are not trying to sabotage your child's education. They have no reason to just decide to pick on your child. This is true with very few exceptions. Do not automatically take your child's side. Do now assume that your child has told you the whole truth on every situation.
  
• If you want a teacher to help your child, schedule a meeting. Then, calmly and rationally work with the teacher to find out what you can do to help your child improve.
  
• Show some interest in your child's class. Do not just contact the teacher when you need something or want to complain. A quick note of thanks will go a long way. It might help you gain more cooperation from the teacher when you do need help. Offer to help. Teachers understand that you work and lead busy lives. Offering to help out from home can be a great way to volunteer. Your teacher will sincerely appreciate this effort.